Here's the thing. We, as women, sometimes have a hard time loving our bodies. Maybe not all women but I've sat around a group of ladies before and we did this ice breaker- say one thing you would change about yourself... We all had a running list. We could list which surgeries we would have, we would wish this was bigger, that was smaller, this wasn't wrinkly... It was a super easy thing to do. Then we had to say one thing we loved about ourselves.
*Silence*
We all finally came up with something but it was way harder then listing what we would change. So sad! We should love our bodies, we should EMBRACE what God has given us. I'm not saying don't be healthy because of course that's important, but that's not what I'm talking about here. Let's celebrate what makes all of us, US.
Now I can feel this way- and speak about it to you all day long. But I don't practice what I preach.*Silence*
We all finally came up with something but it was way harder then listing what we would change. So sad! We should love our bodies, we should EMBRACE what God has given us. I'm not saying don't be healthy because of course that's important, but that's not what I'm talking about here. Let's celebrate what makes all of us, US.
I hate my hips.
Gosh my arms are flabby.
Why are my thighs so big?!
My nose has a huge bump.
I hate getting dressed!
I'm one of the worst offenders of talking bad about myself. I want to change that. I want to be uplifting and encourage others (and myself) to love our bodies. To love things about myself and be able to compliment myself. I don't want my two little boys to grow up hearing mommy talk badly about her own body. I want to help girls embrace their differences, not want to look like this celebrity or that model. We are different, we are all going to look different and that's OK!
So to go with my being brave this year- I've decided to take a personal challenge.
You've probably seen #WIWW (What I Wore Wednesday) or #OOTD (Outfit Of The Day) a way to share your super cute outfit with the world. These ladies put it out there and I love that! I don't usually like pictures of myself- especially full body ones but I'll be embracing that body and sharing my favorite outfit of the week and I'd love to see you all do the same! Real women, real bodies! Love what you got!! Have an outfit that you rock?! Share it! Love the way your makeup looks today? Share it! Found some super cute shoes? Show them off! Take more selfies! Let's love on ourselves and encourage other to do the same. You can find a post from me here every Wednesday (and I'll be sharing throughout the week on Instagram as well @krystaladele) but let's make a movement happen- share your love for your own body with others and encourage other to join you. #embracelovingyou... Encourage women to LOVE OUR BODIES! Because we only live once ladies, let's get out there and rock it!
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Good for you and you are beautiful! Your eyes truly shine with a goodness and light that truly makes you beautiful. I know there are so many things about myself that I sometimes get down on, but you are right- it doesn't do any good.
ReplyDeleteThank you :) and you're beautiful!! Don't let the thoughts get thru ❤️
DeleteYou are beautiful inside and out. This is one of the reasons I started doing outfit posts! Have you thought of doing a link up party? I have! If youre interested maybe we can co-host together? Let me know your thoughts :) it'll def hold us accountable of making sure we post :) Ttys! Love ya!
ReplyDeleteYes! Let's do it :)
DeleteFirst off, you are beautiful girl. That is one of the first things I thought about you when I met you. And then I got to know you more and you are beautiful on the inside too. I love your message mama. We can truly be so hard on ourselves, and that is so unfortunate because women have so much light within them! We just have to see it!
ReplyDeleteLove you my friend!!
Thank you so much!! You're the sweetest, still so grateful we met!
DeleteThis is awesome and you are a beautiful woman
ReplyDeleteThank you! I hope to encourage all women to start loving and sharing!
DeleteI absolutely love this! We are all beautiful and should love our bodies without wishing we were skinnier, tanner, blonder, etc...thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteExactly!! I want to encourage all women to start loving their bodies and sharing it!
Deleteomg you almost made me cry! thanks for the encouragement! I have been really struggling with this with all the wedding stuff going on! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteYou're are beautiful!! You are going to be a stunning bride! OWN IT and LOVE IT!! You better start sharing that gorgeousness lady ;) love you!
DeleteI will you're awesome!! love you too!
ReplyDeleteGood on you for having the courage to face something you found challenging!
ReplyDeleteThis is awesome - it's so hard to do, but I want to try. Thanks for the encouragement:)
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